GROWING OLDER

Accordingto gay lore, “Nothing is sadder than an old queen”

for young gay men who are thoroughly enjoying their sexual orientation , the prospect of growing old generates a great deal of anxiety: They nervously study yhe mirror for wrinkles and watch the approach of each birthday with dread.

the truth about aging is different.Studies have shown that older gay men are usually happier, more content, and better adjusted than younger gay men ( wich may be why same younger men prefer mature parteners ).

An older man has ussually learned a lot about him self ( supuestamente ), has built a circle of friends , and has achieved a degree of succses in his carrer ...; these can compensate for the physical changes brought about by age. of course ,their are men in the late fifties, sixties, and seventies who still incessatly cruise the streets or haunt the bars . they were probably always unhappy , even when they were twenty ot thirty . Well - adjusted older gay men are simply not that visible at the COMBAT ZONE .

A succesful older gay man recognizes that what he has to offer may NOT be immediately apparent. He may not look as dashing as he did when he was young, but with age he has become more sucure, more honest , more interesting , and more interested . These qualities may not manifest them -selves across a crowded room , but but they show over THE DINNER table or in a one on one encounter ..,

Quieter pleasures have superseded the more frenetic exitement of long nite at clubs or the tortuous pursuit of a potential trick from bar to bar .

The chase may still have its allure for an older man , but the generally knows how to conduct it with more patience , even more amusement , and if he is wise ....he stages it on his own turf.

Many maute gay men almost always retain sexual desire and the ability to perform ( if not with the same frequency , same have been in a long lasting relationships. same lived quite happy lives -

Straigth or gay , older men almost always retain sexual desire and the ability to performe ( if NOT with the same frequency ). Whats lost in FIRM muscle or dewy skin is replaced but much greater sexual tecthnique , versatility , and sofhisication . and if there is a disminution of sexual drive this may, paradoxically , lead to a greater sense of control . Young men are often so sexually driven they waste to much time trying to get laid !!! , spending hours with people they may lust after but not like, whereas older men , having learned by experience , are better able to asses all the factors, control their desires , and select parteners with more care!!!

Senior action in a gay environment ( SAGE ) is an organization for older gay men and women . * del libro the joy of gay sex

*por un mundo sin genero donde todos sentimos los mismos puntos de encuentros

#SergioGravier